On-Campus Students

Starting College Life Off Right … SOAR!

Studies have shown that students who attend SOAR, our Student Orientation, Advising, and Registration session, earn better grades and persist at the university at significantly higher rates than do students who do not attend. Attendance at SOAR will allow both you and your student to create a connection to the university that will be invaluable throughout his or her college career. And while we're on the subject, our studies have also suggested that students who live on campus, work on campus and work less than 20 hours per week, as well as those who become moderately involved in campus clubs and organizations have a significant advantage over those who do not. It all comes down to connecting with and ultimately feeling that you are a part of your university family, while allowing enough time to be successful academically. Remember, a 15-hour course load (about five courses) will require approximately 45 hours of class time and study time per week. Parents have a big part in guiding and advising their college student in areas that will help promote success.

Keeping in Touch

It is essential to maintain an active relationship with your son or daughter. Whether you live across the country or across town, we recommend that you initiate a conversation with your new college student about how to keep in touch (e-mail, letters, or phone), how often (daily, weekly, or monthly), and at what time of day (morning, evening, or just on the weekends).

Visiting campus is an excellent idea, but surprise visits are not recommended. As new college students adjust to their schedules, they will know which weekends or evenings will work best for them. For example, a Sunday visit the day before midterm exams may not be a good time. Your son or daughter can help you choose the right time. You may plan a visit around an event such as the international festival, a basketball game, or a theatre performance.

Care packages are great! Students love to receive packages no matter what they contain. Even if you send a bar of soap, new toothbrush, and a couple of snacks, it will be appreciated. Some of the best items in care packages are favorites from home.

Money

Many new college students have not been responsible for their day-to-day expenses. Once they arrive on campus they will need money for notebooks, snacks, personal items, and recreation. UNC Charlotte has ATM machines from several banks on campus. You may want to select a bank that is convenient for students and parents.

College students need financial guidance. Conversations with your student about budgeting, frivolous purchases, and checkbook balancing will help throughout college.

Credit Cards

College students love credit cards! Credit cards are convenient . . . too convenient. If you send your son or daughter to college with a credit card, be sure to set the rules. Keep in mind that students can apply for credit cards (without your permission) almost anywhere. New students need to learn the dangers of debt.

Academic Differences Between High School and College

Students quickly learn that expectations in college are higher than in high school. Professors expect absolute diligence. Students must prepare for class by reviewing all assigned material. The standard rule is that a student should prepare two hours for every hour in class. College is a full-time job.

Whether you have attended college, raised children, or built a career, you understand the value of work. Your son or daughter can learn from your experiences.